Lola Kat Yonder is a Sex Positive - Body Positivity Advocate & Sensual Storyteller: She remarks she grew up in the adult industry, 13+ years & counting: including 8 years as a sensual product consultant & small biz marketing director, commercial hostess, & content creator for luxury adult retail; along with 5+ years of experience in sensual voice performance. Colleagues have dubbed her the Wordsmith & the Vanna White of Vibrators.
In the past, Lola performed 16 years as a classically-trained Church vocalist, as well as contributed 6+ years in senior healthcare. She has evolved from her conservative roots by embracing sexual openness emphasizing intimate education.
She has also competed to model for the Next Face of Torrid 2015, and walked the runway at multiple Body Positivity Empowerment events in Baltimore & NYC; & maintained an active presence on the adult conference circuit, attending events such as Exxxotica & AVN.
Lola’s passions include music, fashion, voiceover, queer positivity, sex toy exploration and empowerment. Her mantra is Style, Makeup, & Masturbation in the Pursuit of Self Love, Intimate Connections, and Positive Mental Health. You can find her commercial work with keywords 'Spice2nite Show' on YouTube, and modeling/ body positivity on @thecoybox on IG
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A lifelong learner, she is currently interested in living powerfully as an accomplished woman with adult-ADHD, for which she has started a consultant page: ADHDsensual.com.
"Lola is a wonderful human, an absolute asset in the space of sexual freedom, health and wellness, and low key – I’m hella honored to know her. <3 "
"I just had a toy consult with Lola. This self-proclaimed dildo slinger definitely knows what she's talking about! I bought that toy she recommended to me and "
"Lola is so thorough with details, helpful with others, beautiful and radiating from the inside as she glows out with her gorgeous mermaid energy! Outrageous and reliable and appreciated."
"Where do you come up with these things?... With you, ADHD isn't a disability, it's a SUPERPOWER!"
"The wordsmith!! She is AWESOME."
"Thank you for being so unapologetically you! You are a radiant light. Thank you for all your kind words and desire to get to know everyone! You are so beautiful."
"A visual representation of self-love AND confidence!"
"Gorgeous, rockin', smart, stylish, radiant, and bloomin'!"
"Such a nurturing energy! A cheerleader and a best friend to everyone around her!"
"The ENTIRE time Lola engaged with us, I was saying to myself, this woman is about to BLAST OFF! she can’t hide it, don’t even try. In my mind, I thought, “wherever else she’s been, she’s been undervalued. She rocks, is an intuitive person with emotional intelligence that’s off the charts.” ... it’s like laying breadcrumbs for the neurotypical to have a shot at following her. SHE IS BRILLIANT. "
"I read your story on your website and it inspired me to be more open with my own stories. I wanted to say thank you and hope that you will share more!"
Looking to Learn More about ALL that is Lola Kat?
You can enjoy my first IN-DEPTH Blog Entry, here: